Friday, December 15, 2006

your chance to tell it like it is

AM I REALLY TRULY A DRAMA QUEEN?

i took a step back and had a good look at myself.

i guess because i'm not one to hide my emotions, and i often (if not always) wear my heart on my sleeve, and sometimes i'm a little too quick to let my heart jump in where my head should be operating, that it can all add up to look a little.. well drama queen like.

it sort of distresses me. do my emotively charged ways make me a bad person? is it a hideously terrible trait?

i mean, i'd like to think that i'm still grounded. i'm sure i'm still grounded.

in true tash style, i'm putting myself out there for the massacre.

i welcome any honest perspectives.

is being a drama queen (or as shirls would put it, an r'n'b star) something i should strive to overcome? and if so, how?

level-headed people of the world.. i call on your assistance.

(i assure you, this is one of the only times i'll be open to this kind of discussion. thank you for your understanding.)

THIS POST IS NOW CLOSED.

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yes!

chndrh said...

well, let me think.... hmm, you've just written an entire post about how potentially traumatising it may be for you to consider that other people consider you as a drama queen, so, umm. YES

you're also a nerd.

Anonymous said...

i wonder what brought that up now???

Anonymous said...

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo you're not!

Anonymous said...

haha...what a vin post.

the things that i can recall you being dramatic about warranted drama-queen behaviour because they were pretty huge...

if the question is 'are you dramatic?' then the answer is an astounding yes, but if we're asking 'are you inappropriately dramatic?' then its a NO for me.

- mace

tash said...

well the polls are in.. am i a drama queen?

we had two resounding yes's.

one resounding no.

one loving in between.

and one undecided.

SO YOUR CONCLUSION IS THAT I'M A DRAMA QUEEN!
WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT YOU JELLYHEADS! I AM NOT A DRAMA QUEEN. YOU ARE ALL THE MOST RIDICULAS BLOG-VISITORS I'VE EVER ENCOUNTERED.

i need a glass of water.

i need a glass of water and some crushed ice IMMEDIATELY.

Anonymous said...

dont forget the fluffy pillow

caz said...

i love tash!!

Anonymous said...

I wouldn't say your a 'drama queen'. After a long analysis I would attribute your 'show of emtotions' to mild ADHD, have you parents takes you to see the the family doctor? May be a good idea. Must say though, Im a big fan.

tash said...

I SAID THIS POST IS CLOSED!

Anonymous said...

FYI Tash.

Criteria for ADHD
I. Either A or B:

Six or more of the following symptoms of inattention have been present for at least 6 months to a point that is disruptive and inappropriate for developmental level:

Inattention

Often does not give close attention to details or makes careless mistakes in schoolwork, work, or other activities.

Often has trouble keeping attention on tasks or play activities.

Often does not seem to listen when spoken to directly.

Often does not follow instructions and fails to finish schoolwork, chores, or duties in the workplace (not due to oppositional behavior or failure to understand instructions).

Often has trouble organizing activities.

Often avoids, dislikes, or doesn't want to do things that take a lot of mental effort for a long period of time (such as schoolwork or homework).

Often loses things needed for tasks and activities (e.g. toys, school assignments, pencils, books, or tools).

Is often easily distracted.

Is often forgetful in daily activities.

Six or more of the following symptoms of hyperactivity-impulsivity have been present for at least 6 months to an extent that is disruptive and inappropriate for developmental level:

Hyperactivity

Often fidgets with hands or feet or squirms in seat.

Often gets up from seat when remaining in seat is expected.

Often runs about or climbs when and where it is not appropriate (adolescents or adults may feel very restless).

Often has trouble playing or enjoying leisure activities quietly.

Is often "on the go" or often acts as if "driven by a motor".

Often talks excessively.

Impulsivity

Often blurts out answers before questions have been finished.

Often has trouble waiting one's turn.

Often interrupts or intrudes on others (e.g., butts into conversations or games).

Some symptoms that cause impairment were present before age 7 years.

Some impairment from the symptoms is present in two or more settings (e.g. at school/work and at home).

There must be clear evidence of significant impairment in social, school, or work functioning.

The symptoms do not happen only during the course of a Pervasive Developmental Disorder, Schizophrenia, or other Psychotic Disorder. The symptoms are not better accounted for by another mental disorder (e.g. Mood Disorder, Anxiety Disorder, Dissociative Disorder, or a Personality Disorder).

Based on these criteria, three types of ADHD are identified:

ADHD, Combined Type: if both criteria 1A and 1B are met for the past 6 months

ADHD, Predominantly Inattentive Type: if criterion 1A is met but criterion 1B is not met for the past six months

ADHD, Predominantly Hyperactive-Impulsive Type: if Criterion 1B is met but Criterion 1A is not met for the past six months.

American Psychiatric Association: Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition, Text Revision. Washington, DC, American Psychiatric Association, 2000.

tash said...

FYI anon.

you're intense.